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By Mercedes Alvarez September 3, 2024
Why my goals are not sticking?
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The Microwave Society: Lack of Communication
By Mercedes Alvarez April 24, 2020
Simple rules to save a marriage 
Life Repair can fix your marriage
By Mercedes Alvarez April 22, 2020
Can't communicate with your spouse and your marriage is on the rocks? Marital problems holding you back with career?
By Mercedes Alvarez April 21, 2020
What is happiness? Is it to have material things no matter what are the means to get them? Is it doing whatever you want despite harming others? Is it breaking rules to arrive to your goals out of desperation? Have you ever seen people who has a lot of "success" and still are unhappy? They may be in drugs, alcohol, terrible relationships and lots of anguish but still they are famous and rich. But we know what has happened to most of them. You see them be harsh and mistreat others around. Yet you tend to think, "to be successful one has to be mean, mistreat others and do whatever to get what I want." There is a formula to be happy and still be successful in life in general. The Golden Rule thought of by the Buddhists still prevails today and forever and is as simple as "Do unto others as you would have these others do unto you." In other words: Don't do to others what you really don't want other people do to you. But how can you do this when others constantly are harming us and taking advantage of us and you see them succeed in their fancy homes and cars? There is a falsity out there generated by "experts" promoting the idea of "an eye for an eye." This is really the beginning of the end of any relationship and life in general. If you do those things you don't want others do to you and yet you do it, you start your own unhappiness as you will become guilty, resentful and bitter. In all the years I have done counseling, I have seen over and over this problem. People do things they don't want others to do to them, and they suffer the most. Why? because you know you are hurting, and the worst thing is you keep doing it because your mind tells you to do it. There is a way out from this and achieving a happy and prosperous life is possible. There is a way to achieve this through a series of steps which you will learn in how to achieve true happiness by acquiring knowledge and fixing your life. That is the essence of a Life Repair, helps you regain your TRUE SELF and be happy. https://www.scientology.tv/series/l-ron-hubbard-library-presents/is-it-possible-to-be-happy.html Que es la Felicidad? ¿Es tener objetos materiales por medios inescrupulosos? ¿Es hacer lo que le venga uno en gana a pesar de hacer daño a otros? ¿Es acaso romper las reglas de manera desesperada para llegar a tu objetivo? ¿Alguna vez has visto gente exitosa pero que son infelices? Ellos pueden estar en drogas, medicamentos para el estrés, en alcohol, en relaciones terribles y estar en una angustia a pesar de ser ricos y famosos. Bueno, sabemos lo que les ha pasado. Los ves que son hostiles, maltratando a los demás y aun así pensamos "para ser exitoso uno debe ser mezquino, maltratando a otros y hacer cualquier cosa que yo quiera a cualquier costo." Hay una fórmula para ser feliz y aun ser generalmente exitoso en la vida. La Regla de Oro pensado por los Budistas todavía prevalece y lo hará por siempre, y es tan simple "Trata a los demás como te gustaría que te tratan a ti." En otras palabras: "No hagas a otros no lo que realmente no te gustaría que te hicieran a ti." Pero como tu puedes hacer esto cuando los demás están constantemente haciéndote daño y tomando ventaja sobre ti, y luego los ves con casas y autos lujosos? Hay una falsedad corriente generada por "expertos" promoviendo la idea de "ojo por ojo." Esto es realmente el comienzo del fin de cualquier relación y en la vida en general. Si tu haces esas cosas que no te gustaría que otros te hicieran a ti, y lo sigues haciendo, empezaras su propia infelicidad y te sentiras mas culpable, resentido y amargado. En todos los años que he estado haciendo consejería, yo he visto este problema una y otra vez. La gente hace cosas que luego no quiere que se las hagan, y sufren mucho cuando lo hacen. ¿Por qué? porque uno sabe que está haciendo daño y lo peor de todo es que uno sigue haciendolo por que la mente te dice que lo hagas. Pero hay una salida para todo esto y si es posible alcanzar felicidad y prosperidad en la vida. Hay una manera de alcanzar esto a través de una serie de pasos en los cuales vas a aprender como alcanzar la verdadera felicidad a través de adquirir conocimiento y arreglando tu vida. Esa es la esencia de una Reparación de Vida, que ayuda a devolverte QUIEN ERES VERDADERAMENTE y ser feliz. https://www.scientology.tv/es/series/l-ron-hubbard-library-presents/is-it-possible-to-be-happy.html
Is it possible to achieve happiness
By Mercedes Alvarez November 30, 2018
You see it in all romantic, feel good and inspirational movies: Happy Endings… (except French movies of course!) Mankind has search for it for eons, is so ephemeral, so thought for but lasts too little. How can I be happy? Going shopping? cheating my partner? being simply a good person, BUT HOW? Believe it or not happiness is buried within you. What doesn’t make you happy are all those moments of distress, losses, fears and pain that have buried your spark for life. Once taken off those specific moments in your life that changed for the worst, you experience happiness. Is like a child that has so much energy. Have you ever seen a child being brought up by a mad and angry person, or a depressed one? This kid will lose the spark of life and will become an angry and hostile child. Well that’s what happens, the joy of life is buried underneath all those bad experiences. What is happiness? Happiness is to survive well and with a purpose, to feel light, not feeling insecure or having fears or feelings of guilt. Happiness is having a sensation of wellness that you can survive and achieve goals. How come many don’t feel like that everyday? There is something that everyone has: Reactive Mind, which is explained in the book DIANETICS . EVERYONE HAS IT, until you decide to eliminate it with Dianetics. I can help you get rid of those feelings and achieve higher states of being with a LIFE REPAIR. * * Copyright © *|2018|*, All rights reserved. Dianetics and Scientology, Scientology, L. Ron Hubbard, Oxford Capacity Analysis Test, Reactive Mind are a trademark and service marks owned by Religious Technology Center and is used with its permission. Copyright © *|2018|* *|Life Improvement Institute|*. All rights reserved for
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